Ok, its just my future brother in laws birthday dinner, a unique occurrence for me actually. This is something FuW and there family do religiously. The guest of honor gets choice on a meal and Mom prepares it. A cute thing actually, since most of my family gatherings for birthdays consisted of forced gatherings amongst relatives, with bad cooking, tension and a birthday cake. Its a cute little thing actually, that they do, and even a year and a half later I look forward to these gatherings.