2 men one woman

Ok I heard about this on WIP today and was a but entrigued, so I looked up and found the article in Philly.com. Though if anyone reads the article and can make some sense of what Carolyns advice was, please fill me in. Anyway heres the article...Philadelphia Inquirer | 01/31/2006 | Tell Me About It | Two men, one woman, hurt feelings

And here is my opinion, though I must admit I am a tad jaded, being that my ex wife left me for an ex boyfriend who she is now married too, and they were always just good friends until my ass was dumped. But, unless it was a preestablished friendship, one that was started before make A came into the picture, like 10 years or something like that, then I think male A should draw a line in the sand and not accept this situtaion as plausible. Since on the other side of the coin, where I have found myself from time to time, Male B is in it for one thing and one thing only, to get Female A to dump Male A so he can slide into her A so to speak. But I am jaded. Any thoughts dear readers?